Money...Power or love

Life keeps on changing.The time, the face you see everyday morning, the air you breath, the vehicle you travel, your thoughts, your emotions, your feeling. We cant expect things to be stable and static. This is what we say ' life moves on'. Life Actually moves on.

 

There are certain times when we think that the time should freeze, these are the times when we are happy. Just think of a time that you wanted to freeze. List down the things that are around you at this particular moment. When i did this exercise, i was really surprised.

 

The most dominant thing in all my experience that i listed there were no prominent things around me, but yes there were very prominent people around me. The people who love me, the people who care for me and the people who will always be there with me in times of high and low.

 

None of my experince had money around me, nor i was powerful at these moments. But yes there was money to buy something that created the moment of joy and the power was  created at that moment. When it comes to priority love had always won in each of the experience.

 

Now comes the main question to be answered in general which one is more important, LOVE, MONEY or POWER? We can endlessly debate this topic but each one of has to refelect into our own selves to find an answer.

 

We all in particular time in our life may have cooked or atleast made a tea. Does this sounds irrelevent in this article but it's not. If we ask a question of which is the ingredient that brings more taste to the tea we drink, is it the milk, the sugar or the tea? What will be the answer?

 

My answer for both the questions love/milk, money/sweet or power/tea 0 is the same.The way in which we blend money, power and love decides how our life will be. Our life will be abundant if there is more love. It will be happier if we add more milk. It will be sour and dark if tea is more,It will be Sweeter with money.

We cant drink the tea if it is more sweet, the tea is not a tea without the tea. More milk will increase the quantity of tea.

 

So it is in our hands to make our life sweeter and happier and at the same we have to be careful that it does not become sour and dark.

Keys to happy relationship

One of the main things which very seldom approached is relationship.Relationship can be with anybody father, mother, friends, spouse anyone and everyone.The one way you can learn yo manage a relationship is self help books and other is through movies.Yes movies teach you a lot sometimes they are light in a dark passage.Even reading a book take efforts but movie !!!!!!!!!!!.

And yes you can also learn through experience as it is said 'experience is the teacher that takes test first and teaches lesson after you fail'. So where did i learn from?.The answer is, from all them.

And i am blogging it for myself so that i don't forget.The most important thing in a relationship is communication.The rule is communicate whatever comes into your mind and heart.The main reasons we don't communicate are

1. ego
2. i don't want to hurt the other person

In both the cases you are the one who is going to suffer and yes in a committed relationship you both are going to suffer because here you sowing the seed of misunderstanding which will grow into a tree reaping more misunderstandings and then the doubts and then paranoia and then your entire life is ruined once the tree grows you can cut the tree but removing the seed is difficult but not impossible.

So if something is stopping you to communicate think about the tree, instead of saving a relationship for the time being you are going to destroy the entire relationship.So keep communicating.............even if the person is not listening make them listen by hook or crook.If the other person cares for you he will surely listen...