Keys to happy relationship

One of the main things which very seldom approached is relationship.Relationship can be with anybody father, mother, friends, spouse anyone and everyone.The one way you can learn yo manage a relationship is self help books and other is through movies.Yes movies teach you a lot sometimes they are light in a dark passage.Even reading a book take efforts but movie !!!!!!!!!!!.

And yes you can also learn through experience as it is said 'experience is the teacher that takes test first and teaches lesson after you fail'. So where did i learn from?.The answer is, from all them.

And i am blogging it for myself so that i don't forget.The most important thing in a relationship is communication.The rule is communicate whatever comes into your mind and heart.The main reasons we don't communicate are

1. ego
2. i don't want to hurt the other person

In both the cases you are the one who is going to suffer and yes in a committed relationship you both are going to suffer because here you sowing the seed of misunderstanding which will grow into a tree reaping more misunderstandings and then the doubts and then paranoia and then your entire life is ruined once the tree grows you can cut the tree but removing the seed is difficult but not impossible.

So if something is stopping you to communicate think about the tree, instead of saving a relationship for the time being you are going to destroy the entire relationship.So keep communicating.............even if the person is not listening make them listen by hook or crook.If the other person cares for you he will surely listen...